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April 21, 2025
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Part 1 in the âLiving with Purposeâ Series
Itâs easy to float through life on autopilot. Wake up, go through the motions, check off the to-do list. If youâre reasonably content, not in crisis and handling life as it comesâwhatâs the problem?
But hereâs the thing: getting by and truly living are two different things.
Without purpose, life can feel a little hollowâeven if everything on the outside looks fine. Purpose isnât some luxury for people with extra time or spiritual retreats booked into their calendar. Itâs a core part of living well, staying grounded, and becoming who youâre meant to be.
Hereâs why it matters more than you might realise.
Purpose Fuels Motivation
Purpose gives you a reason to get out of bed. It turns the daily grind into something more meaningful. Without it, the days can blur together. Goals seem pointless. Progress stalls. Over time, this lack of drive can impact your mood, self-worth, and even lead to burnout or depression. Purpose brings clarityâand a reason to keep going, even when life gets heavy.
Purpose Strengthens Relationships
Thereâs something powerful about shared purpose. Whether in business, friendship or love, when youâre aligned with your own values, it becomes easier to connect deeply with others. Youâre no longer performing or pretending. Youâre showing up as your full, real selfâand that draws in the right people.
Purpose Anchors Your Decisions
Ever feel lost when trying to make a choice? Without a sense of direction, itâs easy to let other people or circumstances steer your life. But when you know your purpose, your decisions have a foundation. You begin to measure opportunities against what matters to youânot whatâs expected of you.
Purpose Creates a Sense of Value
We all want to feel like we matter. But without a purpose, you might find yourself questioning if youâre really making an impact. When you live in alignment with your purpose, even the smallest actions feel significant. You know youâre contributing to something meaningfulâwhether in your business, family, or personal growth.
Purpose Frees You from Comparison
If youâve ever caught yourself scrolling social media and wondering if youâre falling behind, youâre not alone. But comparison often comes from being unsure of your own path. When youâre clear on your purpose, what others are doing becomes less distracting. Your focus shifts inwardâto your journey, your growth, your mission.
Purpose Lowers Stress
When life feels chaotic, purpose acts like a compass. It reminds you where youâre headed and helps you regain controlâeven when everything around you feels uncertain. Youâre more grounded. More resilient. And better equipped to handle setbacks without losing yourself in the process.
When you live with purpose, you stop chasing things that donât serve you and start creating a life that truly reflects who you are. Thatâs the power of knowing what you’re here for. And itâs absolutely worth taking the time to figure out.
This is just the beginning. In Part 2 of this series, weâll explore why living with purpose is importantâincluding some unexpected benefits. Then in Part 3, weâll go into how the purpose of other people can help you to find yours.
Keep readingâyouâre closer than you think.
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Macaroni Cheese. Chocolate. Sunbaking on the beach. Non-stop education and learning challenges. These are a few of my favourite things. How did I get here? Read on, my friend. It's a crazy journey, this thing called life đ
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